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For the Next Six Months: Equilibrium

Recently, in my other life as a papercrafter, I read a post by Ali Edwards about her word for 2009. She was taking stock of the year at the mid-way point in the context of the word she had chosen to live by at the beginning of the year.

I’m a new follower of her blog, but apparently many of her readers had joined in and chosen a word also, and many of them commented about their own progress over the past six months, living with their word as a sort of compass.

I decided that I would choose a word for the remaining six months of 2009, and the word I’ve chosen is EQUILIBRIUM. I thought about the word “balance” – that’s what came to mind first – but it feels so worn out. Every blogger and his monkey’s uncle seems to be writing about balance, and though I understand why, I’m tired of that word!

For me, EQUILIBRIUM goes deeper, it’s more spiritual and not about making lists and keeping all the plates spinning – though I do plenty of that! It’s about feeling content and fulfilled, and finding inner peace – even if the dishes are piling up and there’s laundry to do.

I explored some of this on my other blog last year, though there my focus was on finding serenity and peace of mind through getting myself organized – and that’s still important to me. But for these six months, I will strive for EQUILIBRIUM on a deeper level, using it as a mantra when I start to feel jangled and anxious – which unfortunately I often do.

Is there a word you’d like to live by for the rest of 2009? Please share!

2 Responses to “For the Next Six Months: Equilibrium”

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    annacyclopedia:

    I think the word I’d like to try to live by this year is “presence” – being present and mindful in each moment instead of worrying about the future or dwelling on the stuff I don’t like about the past. Just enjoying right now for what it is. As I’m getting ready for the birth of my first child, I’m trying to enjoy everything about pregnancy and also the freedom I have now as someone without children. But I’m also trying not to worry about how my life will change once this new person arrives, or when and how we’re going to get pregnant with a second one. Right now is enough to occupy me and bring me happiness as long as I let myself just be here, right now.

    Thanks for this post – it’s nice to have a forum to declare my theme for the year!

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    coffeegrl:

    Oh papercrafts! I miss my scrapbooking and hope to get back to it soon….A word for 2009? I think at this point I might go with “home”. Trying to find it and define what it means to me has been a challenge. We have a house but since we spent the first 6 months living with my in-laws in Japan, we’re busy now trying to make the transition back to life in the States and essentially re-adapting to our home. I’d like to have a sense of home wherever we might be, but first I need to really define what makes my “home” for me.

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